July 31st

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Tip of the Day: Schedule time to ease pre-ceremony jitters. Even with the most experienced and trusted wedding planner managing the details of the big day, every bride is likely to have some level of pre-wedding nerves.

The wedding managers at The Abbey Resort suggest getting away from the hustle and bustle of preparations to go for a run, read a book or another decompressing activity. If the wedding is at a resort or hotel, take advantage of bridal package spa specials for some tried-and-true rest and relaxation techniques sure to calm any bride’s nerves.

Plus, check out 8 Super Foods That Fight Stress.

You've Got to See This SWAT Officer's Unbelievable Wedding Shoot

Who knew "Bring Your Bride to Work Day" could be so badass? As a member of the Chongqing Armed Police Corps in China, 29-year-old officer Hou Weilin is on call 24 hours a day. Since he couldn't take time off of work to accompany his bride, Li Jinyang, to their traditional pre-wedding photo shoot, they decided to improvise.

With the help of his officers, the soon-to-be-married bride and groom took some snapshots at a SWAT training facility, resulting in some of the most hilarious, sweet, and action-packed wedding photos we've ever seen! Check 'em out:

This Wedding Trend is Illegal in 48 States

Holy smokes! The New York Times reports that cannabis-themed weddings are the latest craze on the West Coast. (The sale of marijuana for recreational use is now legal in Colorado and Washington State.)

"Weedings," or weed weddings, incorporate the drug in everything from floral arrangements to favors and edible desserts to joint bars. There are even "budtenders" at dispensaries who will advise newlyweds on which strain they should choose. (Bec Koop of Buds and Blossoms says that "If there are two conflicting families who are not too happy about the wedding, you might want to find a strain that will make them a bit more euphoric.")

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According to proponents, including pot-centric details is no different than newlyweds sharing other pastimes or hobbies that they love with their guests. We're guessing that even a Harry Potter, zombies or some other wacky wedding theme isn't as likely to make Grandma blush or your boss squirm in their seat, though. However, advocates argue just the opposite: Unlike alcohol, marijuana is perfect for weddings because it mellows everyone out and fosters positive emotion.

July 30th

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Tip of the Day: "Transitioning into one big family can be a challenging process, so don't force it," advises Dr. Deborah Pardee, a licensed psychologist and faculty member at University of the Rockies

As if you didn't have enough to worry about with your own family getting along, now you are introducing a new group of people into the mix. The bride's and groom's families may not like one another, may not approve of the marriage, or may have conflict about the cost of the wedding. At a time of celebration, these tensions can be overwhelming. 

"Be sure to talk to your family members individually about the importance of the day. Regardless of culture clashes and family dynamics, remember that the marriage is between you and your spouse, and not your family," Pardee adds.

Plus, read our real bride bloggers' advice for Handling Disapproving In-Laws and Planning a Wedding When Your Parents Are Divorced.

5 Relationship Tips For Couples Getting Married

In the midst of wedding planning and the countless decisions that must be made, it can be easy to forget about the most important thing in your life: your relationship with your fiancé. Date night gets waylaid by DJ interviews, brunch gets bumped by florist visits and suddenly you realize that you haven’t spent quality time together in months. Here are a few ways to stay focused on each other before saying "I Do."

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1. Make your relationship the number one priority.
It sounds trite, but explaining what you need and what is bothering you is an essential component of every relationship. If you’re feeling like all of the focus is on your wedding and not on your relationship, tell your fiancé. Let them know that you love them and spend an evening out that has nothing to do with your upcoming wedding. This gives him/her a heads up and the ability to fix the situation before it turns into an argument. 

Bride Finds Wedding Dress Lost During Hurricane Sandy

On July 29, 2012, Nicole Vinciguerra Pagliaro married the love of her life in two stunning dresses. For the ceremony, she wore her aunt's elegant 41-year old dress (which she returned the next day) and during her reception she changed into a stunning ruffled fit-and-flare. 

A few weeks after her nuptials, she took her reception gown to South Beach Cleaners on Staten Island to be preserved. When Hurricane Sandy hit and flooded the dry cleaners with over five feet of water, the new bride thought her dress was lost forever. 

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The bride kisses her new husband in her aunt's vintage gown.
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Here, we see the beautiful reception dress as the couple pose for photos beneath the Verrazano Bridge.
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After the newlyweds tied the knot, they moved into a new house in a different neighborhood. (They were expecting their first child.) A couple days after Superstorm Sandy, the groom, Michael Pagliaro, went back to their old town to check on friends and family that still lived there. The bride was devastated when her husband told her that the shop that had her dress was completely destroyed.

July 29th

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Tip of the Day: Consider the price vs. worth of a gown. "A hefty price tag doesn’t necessarily translate to luxury nor does an inexpensive price tag mean it’s a deal," says Trish Lee, a bridal designer based in San Francisco.

"Are the fabrics synthetic? How is the construction on the gown? Where is the gown made? Are the embellishments falling off? These are signs of quality that you can look for," she adds.

Browse hundreds of gorgeous styles in our Wedding Gown Gallery!

July 28th

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Tip of the Day: "Lighting can really make or break your wedding space. Many DJs and décor companies offer uplights at great price points," says Mary Hager, the catering manager at The Westin San Diego Gaslamp Quarter. Whether you go for colorful uplighting, romantic candles, or vintage chandeliers over each table, you can make even the most drab space look like an ultra-luxe venue with the right lights.

Plus, check out 15 Fun Ways to Light Up Your Wedding.

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