Coping With Grief: One Bride's Inspiring Photo Shoot

Two months before her wedding day, Janine experienced a nightmare worse than she ever could've imagined — her fiancé, Johnny, passed away unexpectedly, turning her life upside down.  

Through her healing process, she came up with the idea of doing an underwater photo shoot in her custom-made wedding gown that she never had the opportunity to wear. She's always been a believer in the healing powers of water and thought the photo shoot would help her find closure. While searching for underwater bride photos, she came across Del Sol Photographers and decided to reach out.

"After I heard Janine’s story, I really wanted to do what I could to create a magical adventure for her," photographer Matt Adcock wrote on his website. "I knew that the natural aquatic wonders of the Riviera Maya would offer great comfort and would be the perfect vehicle for her healing process."

Janine and her photographer developed the shoot at Dreams Tulum to contain several liberations from grief, including a balloon release and falling into a natural pit to represent "letting go of the past and opening herself to the future."

"I really felt that Johnny was smiling down at me and finally giving me closure that I can live my life in a positive way, but never forgetting why I was here," Janine told her photographer. "I actually had fun for the first time in three month since Johnny passed away."

Check out the inspiring photos:

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Photo Credit: Elizabeth Messina on Inside Weddings via Lover.ly

Tip of the Day: "Frequently, couples hire us after they find the venue, and we wish they would hire us first before doing anything. One of the best pieces advice we can offer is to not spend more than 50% of your budget on your venue. Couples get so excited and want to book the date and place that they don't think about all of the other expenses that they have to cover," says Danielle Rothweiler from Rothweiler Event Design.

Rushing into contracts before you have all of the figures in front of you may leave you "house poor," and you'll have to figure out what to cut out to compensate for overspending.

Plus, check out The 10 Biggest Bridal Budget Blunders.

Why You Don't Want a Sunny Wedding Day

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Most brides and grooms pray to Mother Nature for days — or even weeks  leading up to their wedding day for a nice sunny day. As a natural light professional wedding photographer, I am here to tell you that the truth is, in most cases, you actually will get better photos on an overcast or cloudy day. This may be a shock to most people, so let me explain why. Direct sunlight causes heavy shadowing and an emphasis on lines and imperfections on the face, which makes for unflattering photos. I am going to share with you some tips and advice on how to get the most beautiful images possible on your wedding day by planning your timeline for the best light possible!

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1. Avoid Early Afternoon for Your Photography

The strongest, most harsh light during the summer months tends to rage from around 11 a.m. until 3 p.m. This is the worst time frame lighting-wise to take photos. The best times to have your photos taken, if it’s a sunny day is one to two hours before the sun sets. If you schedule your wedding day to start a couple hours after the sun is at its peak, you will end up with better-looking photos.

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Tip of the Day: "As your wedding fast approaches, stress can wreak havoc on your skin," says makeup artist and licensed esthetician L.A. Burdette. Start any new skincare routines months before so your skin can adjust and look glowing on the big day.

In the event that you do break out during the week of your wedding, zap zits fast by applying a cool compress on the area for a few minutes to reduce any inflammation and redness. Then, dab a salicylic acid-containing spot treatment on the blemish. Burdette recommends Mario Badescu's Drying Lotion or Dermalogica's Overnight Clearing Gel.

Plus, check out our Bridal Beauty Countdown.

You'll Never Believe How This Wedding Planner Proposed!

Jack Bermeo has helped hundreds of couples plan the happiest day of their lives and along the way, he's heard every proposal story imaginable. So, when the tables flipped, and it was his turn to ask for his longtime girlfriend Sophia's hand in marriage, the CEO of LJDJs Event Design & Entertainment in New Jersey found himself in an unusual predicament. How does a professional wedding planner pop the question in a unique way that has never been done before? 

His answer: Pull off the ultimate bait-and-switch by staging a fake wedding that's actually all for them! We're talking an 80-person guest list, DJ, flowers, a cake, the works. Jack enlists Danny and Chris to play the role of the happy grooms (they're just good friends), along with clients and business associates to act as the bridal party and parents. The couple's friends and family are in on the plan, too.

During the first dance, Jack professes his love to his unsuspecting bride-to-be and the mother of his child, but as he gets down on one knee, she exclaims, "No, you can't do this right here!" (She doesn't understand why he's stealing the newlywed couple's thunder.) When she realizes the truth, naturally, she says yes!

Watch this incredible proposal unfold:

In the video, prior to getting engaged, Sophia explains that she would have been happy with any proposal no matter what the setting was (their shower, their living room, etc.) She never expected that Jack would execute such a memorable event.

This Sister Wedding Dress Shoot Is the Cutest Idea Ever

No, these are not sister wives. These five women are wives who happen to be sisters, and they came up with the best idea ever — a sister photo shoot in their wedding dresses.

While most brides would love any excuse to wear their wedding dress again, one of the sisters, Cassie Gant, explains their motivation: "We did this shoot as a thank you to my parents for their love and support in not only our weddings, but in our marriages."

How sweet is that? Check out their laughter- and twirl-filled shoot by Rachel Blackwell!

Etiquette Q&A: "When Do We Give Our Attendants Their Gifts?"

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Photo Credit: Jeff Loves Jessica on Jenna Lou Designs via Lover.ly

Q. When is the best time to give our attendants their gifts?

A. Most brides and grooms give their gifts to the wedding party at the rehearsal dinner. Following the main course, dessert is served and the toasts begin. Just so you know, it is customary for the best man to start off by toasting the couple, followed by the groom’s father (traditionally the groom’s parents are the hosts of the event). Afterward, you can acknowledge your attendants and give them the gifts. How you do so is entirely up to you. You can keep things lighthearted and fun or be a bit more sentimental. You can make a general announcement and dispense the gifts all at once, or you might want to say something special about each member of your wedding party before presenting that person with your memento. Do what feels most natural and comfortable. I’m sure your friends will appreciate however you choose to honor them.

—Diane Forden

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