If you've ever been a bridesmaid, I'm sure you've heard from a well-intentioned bride (or a pushy saleswoman) that "you can totally cut the bottom off that expensive gown post-wedding and wear it as a cocktail dress!" Well, I can't say I've known anyone to actually do this. But Bari Jay's new bridesmaid dresses make it so much easier—these three new styles feature detachable skirts.

It'd be really fun to work the detachables into your wedding day—keep the dresses long for the ceremony, then change it up for the reception. Even better if you're planning on wearing a short reception dress as well! 

Check out the styles below.

Charmeuse Sweetheart Pleated Dress with Tiered Detachable Skirt

Iridescent Chiffon Sweetheart Strapless Dress

Music can really make or break your video—if you don’t like the songs, you’re not going to want to watch the video. So before you send over your music selections to your videographer, read our quick tips:

Think Carefully Before Choosing a Current Hit
What are the chances that you’ll truly still love the song ten years from now? A year ago, nearly every couple was requesting “I Gotta Feeling” by Black Eyed Peas. Now, that song is more likely to end up on the do-not-play list. Think about the songs you grew up loving, the songs that remind you of the beginning of your relationship, and the songs you love jamming to together in the car.

Choose Upbeat Songs
Romantic ballads are great, of course, but they can really drag down the pacing of your video. Most “boring” wedding videos you’ve seen would look dramatically different with more upbeat music. Select a nice mix to help your video flow.

Don’t Be Afraid to Stray from Traditional Wedding Songs
“The Way You Look Tonight” and “(I’ve Had) the Time of My Life” are popular choices, but thinking outside the box can help you find a unique sound for your video that you’ll both love. My husband and I both love Queen, so we chose “Don’t Stop Me Now” as the bridal prep song.

—Kristen O'Gorman Klein

Photo by Hilary Mayberry

We've fallen in love... with the new White by Vera Wang bridesmaid dress collection at David's Bridal. These fun designs don't scream "bridesmaid"—your girls will thank you for that!

Check out our top three favorites here, and be sure to check out davidsbridal.com for the rest of the collection!

One Shoulder Organza Dress with Black Belt ($198)

We're loving that the bias-cut flange skirt—a huge trend with wedding dresses—has hit the bridesmaid market.

Reem Acra is launching an exclusive capsule collection for Shopbop.com, coming in July! The line will feature apparel and accessories, ranging from a $450 beaded head band to a $4960 silver sequin micro-mini cocktail dress. Bonus: Reem Acra's popular Sunset Boulevard dress will be available for $5400.

Take a look at what's coming:

This silk gazard dress with trimmed hem ($2175) would be so fun to wear as a reception dress. We're loving the sleek, classic top paired with a fun bubble hem.

If you're looking for a dramatic dress (to say the least), check out this black crepe gown with an attached silk chiffon cape ($2990).

We've just heard that Tiffany & Co. releasing an updated version of their popular engagement ring finder app soon, so we decided to put together a list of our favorite FREE apps for iPhone, iPod touch or iPad that will make shopping for your perfect engagement ring or wedding band easy and fun.

Although most couples today pay for the majority of the wedding themselves, much of the planning is still the bride’s responsibility. You may both decide on the budget, place and date, but after that, it’s all systems go…for you. You’ll have your wedding checklist at the ready and schedule appointments to dress shop and meet with all your vendors. More than likely, you’ll be the one who decides on the wedding colors, invitations, decor, favors and flowers, and you’ll spend hours online researching all these details. Your guy is probably happy to let you handle this to-do list solo (be sure to include him on registering, taste-testings, wine sampling and the DJ/band selection!) but that doesn’t mean he should take a backseat thinking his only job is to show up at the wedding. Nope, those days are over! To the rescue: A Gentleman Walks Down the Aisle: A Complete Guide to the Perfect Wedding Day (Thomas Nelson) by John Bridges and Bryan Curtis.
  

CardAvenue.com
Concept: Dying for a $2,000 couch from Crate & Barrel—but also aware that your guests will think you're crazy if you add it to your registry? Register for gift cards instead to whichever stores you select. Your guests can then select the amount they'd like to give.
Pros: A nice option for a couple who doesn't need any more housewares. It's also helpful if you're planning a home renovation project (just select Home Depot and Lowe's for your cards), where you don't know what exactly you'll need—and let's face it, a new toilet isn't a great wedding gift anyway.
Cons: Call me old-fashioned, but it feels a little too much like flat out asking for money—a big etiquette no no.  

It's practically a given that celebrity weddings will air on TV these days—and that TLC will be behind it. Tentatively titled "Nick and Vanessa's Dream Wedding," TLC's new special will include everything from their joint wedding shower to shopping for the dress to the actual wedding ceremony.

The airdate is still TBD but will be within weeks of the event. Will you tune in for Nick and Vanessa's wedding special?

Here at BG, we can't help but wonder if it'll have anything in common with Nick's last wedding... and we're more than a little surprised that Nick has agreed to more reality TV.

—Kristen O'Gorman Klein

Alison Duke

If, for your big day, you plan to be "in the pink", here are a few rosy picks to complement your theme. Love the pink bridesmaids dresses by Bill Levkoff, Love by Enzoani and Bari Jay—so dreamy!  Physician's Formula Happy Booster Glow & Mood Boosting Blush, at $11.99 is a perfectly pink bridesmaids gift.  The powder features Euphoryl, which has been shown to promote a feeling of happiness (everyone needs this!) Another great gift for the bridal party is Veuve Cliquot Rosé champagne. Get your pink on! And of course, if pink is your plan, you will want these blush-tinted butterfly heels by Aruna Seth.  Don't forget the honeymoon;  rose-tinted shades by Swarovski will have you seeing pink all the way to Aruba!

—Naima DiFranco

Shhh…don’t let my bosses hear me, but sometimes wedding planning can be overloading. I know! I was there myself almost exactly two years ago. And I wanted to throw in the planning towel on more than one occasion. Had I known about these awesome elopement packages from the ultra gorge Lake Placid Lodge in the Adirondacks, I would have opted for that. The rustic, yet luxurious lodge is surrounded by pristine woodlands and that picturesque shimmering lake (look! it’s not just a clever name!) and offers an array of ceremony sites, as well as yum-o food. Wedding packages start at just five hundred greenbacks. There are also larger ceremony and reception options for those of you who wish to swap vows in front of friends and family. Special discounts apply for exclusive use and number of rooms booked. Go to lakeplacidlodge.com for more info. And tell them I sent you!

Photo courtesy of Jon Zander

—Jenna Mahoney