One of the worst things about the wedding being over? Having to write 100+ thank you notes. It's not that we weren't grateful for the gifts—of course we were! But I'm pretty sure the last time I had to handwrite anything major was on my college exams. As a result, writing thank you notes was painful—literally. My hand cramped up after just 3 notes.

A lot of photographers offer pre-printed cards in their packages, but that's considered an etiquette no-no because it's not personalized. But we committed an etiquette faux pas anyway by taking more than 3 months to painstakingly write all of our notes.

Enter ThankThank Notes. For $3 per note, ThankThank Notes will handwrite, hand-address, stuff, stamp and mail your notes. All you need to do is type up the message to be included with each. You can even choose which type of handwriting you'd like so that it closely matches your own.

I never get sick of telling the story of How I Found My Dress and How It Made Me Feel. Follow my journey to learn what to expect before you step into your bridal salon.

1. Bring at least one person who knows you EXTREMELY well and can read your facial expressions.

The first store I went to had about 10 dresses and they all looked horrendous on me. I panicked and my mind went into meltdown mode: What am I going to do? I hate everything in this shop! Oh my god, am I really that kind of a bride? The kind that hates everything? My maid of honor saved the day by Googling the nearest bridal shop and hightailing me out of there. She is Zen, in the form of a tall blonde girl. BG brides, when you're standing there in a big dress and random people in the store are “ohh-ing” and “ahh-ing” and all you want to do is take it off, you’ll need an honest, reliable companion to say, “I love it. But it’s just not you.”

2. You probably won’t buy the first dress you swear is The One.

When I walked into the Hobnob bridal boutique, I felt what it must be like to step into heaven. It was beautiful. White, ivory, and champagne-colored dresses floated around me everywhere. I told my lovely assistant Jac that we're having a vintage-styled wedding with a touch of modern (because Groomie can only handle THAT much vintage). I originally envisioned wearing this lace dress with a keyhole back, fishtail silhouette, no train, and a lace-trimmed veil:

Tia & Tamera, the new reality show chronicling the twins' lives as Tamera plans her wedding and Tia preps for a baby, premieres tonight at 9 EST on Style Network.

We got our hands on some pictures from Tamera's beautiful Napa wedding, which took place on May 15. We can't wait to see the behind-the-scenes of her planning with Mindy Weiss, one of our favorite celebrity wedding planners!

Photos by Jose Villa

The only thing better than getting a so-low-it's-sinful deal? FREE wedding merch. If you're still in the market for your dream dress, stop what you're doing and enter Simply Bridal's new dress-a-day giveaway, which runs today through September 8. Forgetful brides like myself will love this: Fill out your basic info once and you'll automatically be re-entered to win each day. Winners for each week will be announced on the Simply Bridal Facebook page each Saturday.

Simply Bridal is a customized-to-fit site, which means that they make each gown one at a time, as brides order them, so they're able to offer great discounts since they don't have to stock up on inventory or pay costs associated with a brick-and-mortar retailer. Their wedding gowns run in sizes 0 to 16, so no matter what your shape is, you're guaranteed to find a flattering style if you're one of the 32 lucky winners (check back this fall for more customized sizing options). 

Something old, something new, something borrowed… Here are some fun, unexpected alternatives to the traditional "something blue!"

A dark blue mascara, like DiorShow Waterproof in Azure Blue ($24.50, sephora.com) will add a playful, stay-put pop of color to your otherwise neutral wedding-day look. Dogeared’s ‘Something Blue’ bangle ($172, dogeared.com; in sterling silver or gold-dipped) is a thoughtful wedding gift and features three tiny hand-set sapphires, along with a sweet message inside the box. For the bold bride, these Kate Spade royal blue satin heels ($325, katespade.com) are adorable with a tea-length dress. Want to dress up your undergarments? Cosabella’s Shoreline thong and bandeau ($65 for thing, $53 for bandeau; bhldn.com), make for the perfect lingerie with a strapless gown. The lacy, retro-cut thong hides a tummy control panel, and the bandeau has side boning for extra support. And for the ultimate splurge you’ll wear again and again: Judith Leiber’s Fizzy clutch ($1,695, judithleiber.com), which comes with a cross-body chain.

—Samantha Dichter

We hosted a live Facebook chat where fans had the chance to submit their toughest fitness questions and get personalized feedback from workout guru Sue Fleming, the creator of the Buff Brides program. What we learned: No gym membership? Don't sweat it! All you need in order to work on the moves below are a swiss ball, a set of free weights, exercise bands, resistance tubes, and a good pair of sneakers.

Q1: "I'm wearing a strapless gown and am considering having the dress neckline altered to cover up the side-boob action. (You know, the little area right in front of the underarm.) Are there any particular moves I can focus on—other than just dropping my body fat percentage in general—to deal with that area?" —Brittany B.

A1: Sue Fleming: Push-ups are great to improve that area you're talking about. Try decline push-ups (your feet are on a bench, hands on floor) and incline push-ups (hands are on the bench, feet on floor) for an added boost!

Q2: "I've lost almost 40 lbs. but am struggling to lose the last 10-15 lbs., which is mostly in my thighs. Can you give me any helpful tips to minimize that area?"
—Jamie H.

TLC's hit series Four Weddings, where four brides with very different wedding styles compete to win a luxury honeymoon by attending and judging each other's weddings on the food, dress, venue, originality, and overall experience, returns tonight at 10 p.m. with a brand new episode.

Over the past few seasons, viewers have learned a ton about what will impress your guests, and as well as some surefire ways to irritate your nearest and dearest. Here, the top 10 mistakes we've seen:

Blunder #1: Not accounting for the temperature with an outdoor wedding.
Always put your guests' comfort first. This is even more important when having an outdoor wedding in the middle of July. Don't even think about having an outdoors-only affair if you can't hook up fans or, even better, air conditioning. If your guests are overheated, they're not going to be focusing on what's going on and will instead be preoccupied with their discomfort. Plus, you'll get a lot of early exits at your reception. People do not enjoy extreme temperatures, even if it is your special day.