It's no surprise that planning a wedding can make you break out the tissues; as it turns out, there are distinct emotional phases you may go through before getting married. You can experience these stages in any order, and every person's experience is just as unique as their wedding.
By: Stefania SainatoStage 3: Determination
Once critical tasks like choosing the venue, bridal party, and dress were checked off, other decisions that were dependent on those factors fell into place. A vision began to take shape: a glamorous mermaid gown with an intricate back, a vintage limo from the '30s, an electric violinist who would play our favorite rock songs during the cocktail hour, etc. Finally, it all felt very "us." And I fell in love with our wedding all over again.
To accomplish our goals in time, we broke projects up into smaller, more manageable pieces. For long-term projects that spanned the entire duration of our engagement, like my journey to get in great physical shape, I made weekly goals (e.g. attend three gym classes). When I met them, I would give myself a small reward, such as a pro manicure or my favorite lunch.
How to make the most of this stage:
Research rates for wedding services in your area so that you're well-informed at meetings with vendors. Ask recent brides not only who they'd recommend, but which vendors raised red flags if any. On the flip side, ask your photographer, florist, DJ, etc. who they like working with since they may be able to recommend great vendors to fit your needs. Also, I can't stress how many miscellaneous papers, sketches, receipts, etc. you'll accrue during this time. Create an organization system that works for you.
Our centerpieces from conception to mock.
