Get the Scoop on Mindy Weiss' New Book!

Staying organized during the wedding-planning process can be challenging—we brides know that it takes just one misplaced business card or (gulp) contract to create chaos. With Mindy Weiss' new book, The Wedding Planner & Organizer, you'll never have an excuse to toss papers in a stack under your desk ever again. It comes with sturdy pockets and zippered storage bags, so you can safely tuck away essential contact info and objects (like magazine tear-outs and fabric swatches) immediately after appointments. We caught up with the renowned wedding planner (a favorite of stars including Hilary Duff, Katy Perry and Backstreet Boy AJ McLean) at David's Bridal, where she gave us the scoop and shared some exclusive advice for BG brides!

Watch Mindy explain why you should pick up a copy ASAP:

Dos and Don'ts of Making Song Requests

Each week, we feature wedding music recommendations from Scratch Weddings, the nation's leader with the best wedding DJs at affordable prices. This week's post comes from DJ K. Ross. Hailing from upstate New York and currently based in Buffalo, K. Ross is a DJ, producer and performer who has spun for crowds in New York, L.A., Paris, London, Amsterdam, and everywhere in between. His credentials span from hip-hop to indie rock, opening for acts such as Cypress Hill, Mos Def, Matt & Kim, and Tribe Called Quest as well as performing at SXSW, Coachella and Rock the Bells. His encyclopedic musical knowledge is sure to impress even the most discerning couples, and with more than a decade's worth of DJ experience, K.Ross can effortlessly spin both hits and deep cuts from every genre imaginable. "I really try to get a sense of a couple's specific musical taste, because they should hear every song they want for their wedding.”

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Fashion Find: Gorgeous Headpieces from Andria Bird

Recently, I came across Andria Bird's romantic headpieces, ideal for the dreamy bride. I love the ultra-feminine details and the bohemian sensibility. These headpieces would look great with a flowing destination gown, a slim lace dress, or a floral gown. Not only are these headpieces unique and beautiful, they are a great price—ranging from $40-$150. Check out her collection at andriabird.com.

—Naima DiFranco

Plan an Unforgettable Ceremony

I have never attended a wedding where I didn’t cry. Granted, I’ve only been to a handful of nuptials in my life, but all it takes is seeing that look of love in the couple's eyes and I become emotional myself. I know my own wedding will be no different (I'll likely be a watery-eyed, red-nosed mess!). My fiancé Corey and I want our ceremony to be meaningful and personal without getting so carried away that I cry away all of my makeup.

The challenge? Corey and I have chosen to have a non-religious ceremony. That means legally, all our ceremony must entail is a few signatures and an “I do.” However, we don't want it to be quick and impersonal. Many couples I’ve spoken with tell me the whole wedding day flies by; we don’t want our ceremony to be two minutes long! Recently, we hired an officiant who is helping us figure out how to personalize our event. Here are a few ideas we are considering incorporating into our ceremony to make it longer and more memorable:


1. Anniversary box: Prior to the ceremony, the bride and groom write a love letter to each other. The letters (along with a bottle of wine or champagne) are taken out and placed in a box, not to be opened until the 1st, 5th or 10th anniversary (or really, whenever you want). I don’t know if I’m patient enough for this one! I struggle to read books without flipping to the last page and finding out what happens, so I’m afraid the box might taunt me. I can only imagine how excited I would be to read that letter 5 or so years from now and relive the love from our wedding day with Corey.

Tasks You Can (and Can't!) Delegate to Bridesmaids

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We brides are truly blessed to have those near and dear to us serve as members of our bridal party. The maid(s) of honor and bridesmaids take on so many different roles during our journey from Miss to Mrs., acting as therapists, stylists and party planners. When your friends are so eager to assist with the planning, it can be difficult to determine when to take advantage of their assistance and which tasks you're better off tackling solo. Follow my personal breakdown for guidance.

Wedding Tasks Where More is Merrier

Bridesmaid Dress Shopping: I opted to include my bridal party in the process of selecting their own gowns. Personally, I’m against asking someone to spend money on a dress that they have no interest in wearing, or—even worse—a dress they feel uncomfortable in. I brought my girlfriends to a local dress shop and had them try on different styles, which helped me see which silhouette and color flattered the group as a whole. As I suspected, I couldn’t find a dress that flattered all of my girls, so I gave them some general criteria (color, fabric, and length) and had them select their favorite style. The end result: Happy girlfriends who look absolutely gorgeous!

78 Years and Counting: The Longest Married Couple

"Las Vegas" and "long-lasting marriage" don't seem to belong in the same sentence, but one couple is defying the city's repuation for shotgun weddings and quickie marriages. Wilbur and Theresa Faiss have been married for 78 years and have just been certified by Worldwide Marriage Encounter as the longest-married couple in the U.S.

What’s the key to such a long and successful marriage? “It’s very simple. It’s give and take and compromise,” Wilbur Faiss, 100, told CNN. Still going strong after so many years, he must have something right! The couple's expanding family now includes three children, six grandchildren, five great-grandchildren, and four great-great-grandchildren.

“You’re in love, and that’s all you think about, you know,” Wilbur said about his relationship with his wife.

Technically, there are at least three couples in the U.S. who have a couple years lead on Wilbur and Theresa, including a New Mexico couple who are on their 83rd anniversary. These other couples have already been recognized by the Longest Married Couple Project, making it the Faiss’ year to shine. 

Nominated by their son, Bob Faiss, the Las Vegas couple was delighted at having been honored by the Longest-Married Couple Project. Even President Barack Obama took notice; he plans to give the couple a shout out next time he visits Las Vegas. “How often does an ordinary guy get recognition by the President of the United States? It’s one of these things that’s once-in-a-lifetime,” said Wilbur.

Watch the interview here!

Join Our Twitter Party!

We hope you're enjoying our  exclusive sale with The Aisle New York, which runs until Feb. 9! Join our Twitter Party on February 2 from 2 - 3 pm (EST) to chat  live with style experts at The Aisle and Angel Sanchez, along with our Fashion Editor Naima DiFranco. Get styling tips for your new purchases, select the best bridal look for your personality, and more.

Follow these easy steps to join the conversation:

1. Sign in to Tweetchat, where you will log in with your Twitter account or create one if you don't have a username yet.

2. At the top of the screen, type in "#bridechat" for the hashtag. On Twitter, the pound sign "#" (referred to as a hashtag) tags a specific topic and connects you with other people who are chatting about the same subject. Once you hit the "Go" button, you'll be able to see tweets from all of the other participants in the party.

3. Each tweet that you send from Tweetchat will automatically get the "#bridechat" hashtag added to the end of it. The chat room auto-updates, so get your texting thumbs ready—responses will show up quickly on the site, so keep your eyes peeled so you don't miss anything!

— Stefania Sainato

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