
The Stroud Family (I'm last on the right)
Most brides only have two options for their last name after they're married (a third if you count the hyphen). My decision comes with a twist: I'm torn between two last names, but neither of them are mine, and only one belongs to my fiancé Corey. Let me explain...
Corey’s last name is "Allan," but unlike most last names—which date back decades and encompass a rich sense of family history—"Allan" isn't old, it's new. Corey's dad, a news anchor, was born a "Trojanowski," but decided to make the switch after he graduated from college and began his career in broadcasting. His original name was too difficult to pronounce by TV standards, so he came up with "Allan" after adding an extra "L" to his middle name ("Alan").
What complicates our decision even further is that the Trojanowski family line will officially end if we decide not to take that last name. Corey's grandparents immigrated from Poland, and his dad has a brother and a sister, but neither ever had children. This is something that has bothered Corey for a while now, and family history is important to both of us. When Corey turned 18 (a few years before we met), he considered reverting back to the original "Trojanowski," but decided against it after finding out how much work was involved in a legal name change.