A Bride's Heartfelt Thank-You Letter to Her Dad

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To My Chief Daddy Officer,

As a child, I never looked at my relationship with my Dad as "different" — I just knew it as unique and special. When I was seven years old, my parents went through a tumultuous divorce, resulting in my mother deciding to leave and move to Boston. Most kids, by default, would follow their mothers. And though some may have had that same expectation for me, at the tender age of nine, I made a decision that one could say marked a pivotal point in both of our lives and paved the way for my relationship with my dad being what it is today.

I made a choice — I wanted to live with my dad full-time. As the CEO of his own pharmaceutical marketing company and now a single dad, he did not run away from the challenge. He ran towards it — he embraced it, cherished it, and gave me a life and parent that some never get to experience.

I am a direct reflection of everything he has taught me and raised me to be, and I'm proud of that fact. He has instilled values and life lessons in what would seem to be an obvious way, but what I've learned is not obvious to most. He showed me by example and then let me arrive at my own decisions (both good and bad). What I never grasped until later in life — he was always strategic, and by that I mean he was always laying down the wireframe for an opportunity to teach me a life lesson. I always felt like he was five paces ahead of me (which, when I was a teenager, wasn't always fun); however, it always was for my benefit.

4 Guest Book Alternatives We Love

Everyone loves to stop by the guest book table and write a special message for the bride and groom. After all, the congratulations and heartfelt wishes are keepsakes the couple will always treasure. Today, guest books come in such an amazing variety—from traditional white and ivory satin-covered books to posters, illustrations, picture frames, mailboxes and memory boxes. Whatever your style, you’re sure to find a guest book that fits the bill.

I recently came across these alternative wedding guest books from weddingstar.com. They’re perfect for rustic chic or vintage-style weddings and beautifully add to the décor. Bonus: you can display them afterward in your home!

I love this antique-style Classic Round Birdcage, $49.98.

birdcage wedding guest book

And this romantic white birdcage would dress up any garden, $44.98.

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You can also fill your birdcage with flowers and use it as a centerpiece for future soirées.

The New Kate Middleton-Inspired Gowns

british inspired wedding dressesA year after Kate & Will's wedding, we can still see the influence of that infamous Alexander McQueen wedding dress. Designers this season modified the dress with shorter sleeves and a more narrow silhouette—making it more appropriate for intimate for less formal settings. I believe the ultra-feminine illusion neckline will be a style trend for quite some time. This look is perfect for the classic bride who loves feminine detailing.

Are you considering an illusion lace gown? Check out christosbridal.com, oscardelarenta.com, and justinalexander.com for these Kate Middleton-inspired gowns. 

—Naima DiFranco

Get a Social Upgrade on Your Flight

If you’ve ever had a convo with me in the real world, you’d notice that the gift of gab is one that has visited me many fold. But in the air, I’m a different kind of person. I’m not one for small talk on a plane. And I’m usually obsessed with whatever book I brought onboard to chat it up. So this new pick-your-seat-based-on-your-mood service at Air Baltic might be right up my alley.

According to recent press clips on the program, the carrier will seat you based on your likes, dislikes and hobbies that they’ll cull from a secure passenger questionnaire. The first flights using the seating system will take off later this year. And the placement service comes at no extra cost.

—Jenna Mahoney

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