Answers to who walks when, who stands where, and other ways to make sure your ceremony is perfect.
By: Diane FordenQ: My future sister-in-law has offered to play the piano for our church service, but I don’t know which musical selections to give her. Do we need to play the traditional Wedding March?
A: Not at all. In fact, many couples opt for ceremony music that has a special meaning for them and reflects their personalities. Speak with your fiancé about the mood you want to create at your ceremony. Do you both want a traditional feel, or are there some popular songs that have an emotional resonance for you—perhaps a tune that didn’t make the cut as your first-dance choice? If you do decide to go the classic route, some choices to consider for the processional, other than the Wedding March, are Canon in D Minor (Pachelbel) or The Four Seasons (Vivaldi). Or, if you prefer something nontraditional, then you might like “What a Wonderful World” (performed by Louis Armstrong), “You Raise Me Up” (Josh Groban) or “The Prayer” (Bocelli and Dion), to name a few. Take some time to listen to some wedding CDs and go to bridalguide.com/music for more suggestions on traditional and nontraditional songs that are suitable for every part of your ceremony and reception. Have fun during the process and keep a notepad handy to jot down any songs you may suddenly think of or hear on your computer or radio. And if you’re marrying in a house of worship, keep in mind that some may have restrictions, so clear all musical choices with your officiant.
