Things have changed a lot since your parents got hitched! Check out the new and improved ways modern couples are creating unique, thoroughly personal events.
By: Kristen Finello
Rule #3 Get guests mingling.
The old way: Sit-down dinners with guests in assigned seats.
The new way: Encouraging friends and family to move around freely.
Photo courtesy of Raj Tents
Dread fussing over a seating chart? Good news: Open seating, where guests choose where and with whom to sit, is making a comeback, say experts. "It's a great way for guests to meet and get to know others," says Raquel Shutt, the CEO of Wedding Savvy in Annapolis, Maryland. Just be sure to place "reserved" signs on tables where you and your groom, the bridal party and both sets of parents will sit. That way, the major players are guaranteed a special spot.
If open seating isn't for you, you can still foster a friendly feel by creating a club-like atmosphere in your reception room. Keep the lighting low. Instead of using standard round tables all of the same size, opt for a variety of shapes and sizes — perhaps several tall tables with or without bar stools, some small round tables for four and a few large square or rectangular tables that can seat more guests. You can even bring in couches, comfy chairs and cocktail tables to create a lounge area. Another option if your wedding isn't too big: Go with "royal banquet seating," where everyone sits at one long table. Finally, consider forgoing a sit-down dinner in favor of multiple food stations, where guests can pick and choose among various types of cuisine. This is a great way to encourage interaction.
