How to DIY Your Wedding Cake

As a baker, I’m ambitiously planning to make my own wedding cake in a couple of weeks. If you want to make your own wedding cake too, you’re not alone.

Before you commit to creating your own concoction, there’s a lot to consider. Below are my top tips to making your dream cake.

Pick an Attainable Cake Design

While part of picking the right size of cake comes down to having the right number of servings, it isn’t always that simple. This decision can also be influenced by the look you’re after. Some people want a specific number of tiers, or a cake design that requires extra space between each tier to add decorations.

We are picking a very simple cake design for our wedding cake! It will be decorated with the same fresh flowers that are in my bouquets, and the flowers will cascade diagonally across the cake.

While wedding cakes can be made ahead of time (see below!), you don’t want to be stressing over complicated cake decorations before your big day. I suggest picking a design you feel confident making, and that you know you can execute well.

If you don’t have a ton of experience with tiered cakes, you may want to make a smaller practice cake before the big day. I suggest doing a test run with the cake flavors and frosting you plan to use. Making a test cake ensures the cake design you have in mind is doable, and will turn out how you picture it.

The saying “practice makes perfect” exists for a reason! Practice will also help increase your confidence, and give you peace of mind when it’s time for the real deal.

Consider Number of Guests

The first thing you need to think about when making a wedding cake is its size. How many guests are you expecting? How many tiers, and what size of tiers will you need to make sure every guest gets a slice?

Different sized tiers can be combined in a ton of different ways. This creates a lot of flexibility in the number of servings a tiered cake can have.

There are wonderful charts out there to help you figure this out. My wedding is going to have 120 guests, and I plan to make a four-tiered cake. It will be made with 12”, 10”, 8”, and 6” tiers. A cake this size should feed 134 people, so I’ll have some buffer around the number of servings. This is great, because sometimes people want seconds.

Use Real, Fresh Flowers to Decorate

Flowers are a common and beautiful way to decorate a wedding cake. But, there are many different types of flowers that can be used.

Sugar paste flowers can be a lot of fun, but boy are they a ton of work!! They’re an art form of their own, and a majority of us don’t have the skills (or time) to make them.

Buttercream flowers are another floral option. When they’re properly piped, they are a gorgeous addition to a cake. They also take a lot of practice and skill, and are challenging to create.

Fresh, real flowers are another way to decorate a wedding cake. I believe you simply can’t beat nature. Have you ever really stopped and looked at a perfectly bloomed rose? It’s stunning. I can easily say that nothing I could make would be more beautiful than a fresh flower.

Pick Your Favorite Flavor, and Stick to It

Once you figure out the size and decoration of your cake, the next big decision is flavor. This is a personal decision that should be made by you and your partner. If you both love a particular flavor, I say make your life easier, and make the whole cake that flavor!

If you can’t agree on a flavor together, you can make one half your favorite, and the other half theirs. To keep things simple, I recommend not making more than two flavors for your wedding cake.

I once made four different flavors for my best friend’s wedding cake, and it took me forever!! Do yourself a favor, and just focus on making the flavors you pick be the best they can possibly be. Quality over quantity, right?

My fiance and I are obsessed with my funfetti cake recipe, so I’m planning to make our entire wedding cake funfetti. Is that crazy? Maybe a little, but I don’t think anyone will complain once they get a taste.

Use A Frosting That Makes You Feel Confident 

While the cake flavor itself is a big decision, so is the frosting! In fact, some might even argue this is the most important decision.

Picking the right frosting really comes down to your taste, and what you are most comfortable using to decorate. I am a huge fan of American buttercream, and I use it on almost all of my cakes. Luckily for me, it’s also the easiest frosting to make! It’s really just butter and powdered sugar, with a splash of cream and some salt and vanilla extract. A batch can be made in less than 5 minutes!

While it’s incredibly easy to make, American buttercream is by far the sweetest type of buttercream. Some people prefer less sweet variations, like Swiss meringue buttercream, or Italian buttercream. Both involve whipping egg whites with sugar to create a fluffy, less indulgent frosting.

These types of buttercream are a lot more challenging to make, and definitely require some practice to master. They can be finicky, and frustrating to make. If you want to keep things simple for your wedding cake, I recommend using good old tried and true American buttercream.

Consider Timing

Now that you have all the details figured out, it’s time to think about the timeline of your cake. Cake layers can be made weeks in advance, if wrapped and frozen properly. Buttercream can be made weeks ahead of time too!

Breaking up the workload also makes the process a lot more enjoyable. It allows to you take a breather between all of the baking, and the decoration of the cake. This will allow you to put all your creative energy into the décor.

In the off chance something goes wrong (you burn you cake layers, run out of sugar, etc.) it will also give you time to fix the situation.

I usually assemble tiered cakes 1-3 days before an event, and plan to do the same thing with my wedding cake. Our families and friends are flying in a couple days before our wedding, and I want to be able to spend as much time with them as possible.

I also need to leave time for last minute wedding prep, and assembling the cake in advance will give me a lot more flexibility. I plan to add fresh flowers to my cake the morning of our wedding, then drop it off at the venue.

It will sit out for several hours before we cut into it, but as long as a cake is properly supported and is at room temperature, it should be just fine. Just be sure to not leave a wedding cake out in the heat, or in direct sunlight.

For more wedding cake inspiration, visit 6 Wedding Cakes We Love. 

– Chelsey White is an acclaimed baker, with more than 131k followers on YouTube, and more than 850k followers on Instagram. Check out more of her tasty concoctions on her website.