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Photo Credit: Melissa McCrotty Photography 

Tip of the Day: If splitting up holidays between your family and your fiancé feels stressful, remember that you're not stuck doing it this way forever. Families expect that you'll make adjustments after the wedding, such as alternating whose home you'll visit for Christmas each year. Although your family might be sad you won't be spending every event with them, they'll adjust with time. Make a new tradition to Skype with them during holidays when you won't be able to come over or send them special baked goods or flowers.

Check out more advice on How to Split the Holidays.

Etiquette Q&A: "How Much Do We Need to Tip Our Vendors?"

Join us every Friday for our Q&A column, where editor-in-chief Diane Forden answers one reader's biggest etiquette question.

wedding singerQ. Are there any particular guidelines for tipping wedding professionals? I am not sure whom to tip or how much I will need to give them.

A: Tipping depends somewhat on where you live and, in some cases, is included in your overall fee (especially when dealing with caterers or banquet halls). You should clarify this when you sign your contract. An additional tip of 15 to 20% is generally expected for your maitre d' or banquet manager. Limo drivers also expect to receive a 15% tip, as do many wedding consultants. It is not necessary to tip musicians, florists, bakers or photographers, however, unless they perform an extra-special service. Clergy members are generally given a small "gift" (ask what's typical for your congregation), while civil officiants charge only a flat fee. Other possible people you will need to tip: ceremony assistants (altar boys or girls), organists, powder and coat room attendants and parking valets. Again, many of these gratuities will be included in your overall fee, so be sure to ask.

—Diane Forden

Photo Credit: Susan Baker Photography

Couple Hides Camera in Bouquet—Watch What Happens

One groom discovered a way to watch his wedding day unfold from his bride's point of view!

San Diego photographer Ben Horne petitioned his now-wife Lyubov to hide a GoPro HD Hero 2 video camera (often used by skydivers to record footage) in her bridal bouquet for their June wedding.

It captured unscripted moments, both big and small. Watch the heartwarming video above to see guests react to the bride as she walks down the aisle and the couple taking in their reception space for the first time.

"It really is a very unique viewpoint and something we're going to enjoy looking back on 20 or 30 years from now," said Horne.

Horne's video only had about 18,800 views at the time of publication, but we have a feeling this could be one of the hottest new tech trends for brides.

Interested in giving your own bouquet cam a shot? Horne says he made his bride's bouquet about two weeks before the wedding using "Real Touch Flowers," which are artificial. His wife picked out orchids, roses and greenery.

They took the camera out of its housing and wrapped it in white gaffer tape so that it would be protected. Then, they super-glued a stick onto the back of it. He also glued on petals to disguise the power and record buttons, as well as the camera display.  Check out this video tutorial for more info!

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Picture Perfect: How to Take Gorgeous Wedding Photos

Beautiful wedding photos make for everlasting memories. Here’s how to capture each and every special moment in glorious light and detail.

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  • Savor the Quiet Moments

    Savor the Quiet Moments

    A pensive moment: “This image is so still and quiet that it allows the viewer to experience a variety of emotions,” Messina says.

    “A wedding is full of emotions and beautiful moments, and it’s the perfect place to create meaningful photographs.”

    Tip: Remember that there’s more than one way to shoot a wedding. What’s your style? Do some research to find work that speaks to you.

  • Be Impulsive

    Be Impulsive

    “Weddings are the heart and soul of a couple’s love story,” she says. On the spur of the moment, Messina drew a heart on the chalkboard wall backdrop. “I am always following little impulses like that. The important thing is to be open.”

  • Use Photos within a Photo

    Use Photos within a Photo

    This couple took turns taking portraits with a Polaroid camera, then used the pictures as props. “I thought it would be cute to take a portrait of them holding each other’s images.”

    Tip: Before you book, consider: Do you go for dreamy, candid imagery and natural light, with lots of emotion? Or are formal, posed portraits more important?

  • Dress Up Your Flower Girl

    Dress Up Your Flower Girl

    A flower girl is transformed into a tiny angel. “I often bring a bag of props,” Messina says. Essentials include fabrics, vintage cameras, signs and crowns.

    Tip: Typically, photographers cherry-pick their best shots for their web sites. Ask to see a full range of photos from a wedding to see how the work is carried through from start to finish.

  • Reflect Upon the Moments Before the Ceremony

    Reflect Upon the Moments Before the Ceremony

    The time right before a ceremony is so full of emotion and beauty, Messina says. Taking advantage of this tender moment, she had her bride look toward a window as the sun sets.

    “I don’t think of shooting wedding portraits as a job but rather as an honor that’s been bestowed upon me. Capturing everything from the tilt of a bride’s head as she puts on her shoes to the color of the sky on the day a couple gets married to the bouquet the bride carries down the aisle—these are subtleties of the day that carry meaning for the couple and are important to document.”

  • Change the Focus

    Change the Focus

    A delicate floral crown is the focal point of this ethereal image. Veil by Delphine Manivet.

    Tip: “I like to start shooting at least two hours before the ceremony,” Messina says. That’s if she’s not doing group shots ahead of time, but only images of the bride getting ready and some detail shots. Otherwise, she begins her work three or even fours hours ahead.

  • Add Fun Props

    Add Fun Props

    This charming metal heart is crafted from a piece of an old wine barrel. “The heart acts as a frame within the frame and accentuates the light on their faces.”

    Tip: Ask your photographer to provide you and your fiancé with a detailed shot list for review prior to the big day. 

  • Take Advantage of a Rainy Day

    Take Advantage of a Rainy Day

    Although rain is not ideal for a wedding day, it certainly can add to the beauty of an image, especially when printed in rich sepia tones.

    Tip: Set up in-person meetings with any photographer you’re considering. You’ll be spending hours with her on a whirlwind of a day, so the chemistry has to be spot-on.

  • Get Silly

    Get Silly

    Props can be used to help tell a story or add another dimension. This “kiss” sign from modern-letterpress.com is one of Messina’s favorites.

    Tip: Your photographer should be in on the creation of a wedding-day timeline. Make sure your shoot schedule coordinates with your event schedule.

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    Don't Forget the Details

    Glittery wedding shoes are paired with a crown and vintage books from Messina’s whimsical collection.

    Tip: Consider behind-the-scenes moments and details like flowers, seating cards, the cake—all can be memorable images.

Picture Perfect: How to Take Gorgeous Wedding Photos

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Hurricane Sandy Couldn't Stop This Wedding

Catherine Scrivo and Andrew Baker, from Astoria in Queens, NY, planned on having a simple City Hall wedding on November 2, followed by dinner at a nice restaurant with their immediate families. Then Hurricane Sandy hit the area, and their seemingly-simple wedding suddenly became a lot more complicated.

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At first, the couple considered rescheduling, but travel arrangements had already been made and paid for by their families, both traveling from Buffalo, NY, and finding another time for everyone to come into town seemed nearly impossible. 

A day before their scheduled flight, Andrew's parents found out it had been cancelled. Instead, they packed up the car and made the seven hour drive. Catherine's parents also drove.

The couple and their families had made arrangements to stay at the Conrad Battery Park Hotel, but once Sandy hit, they had to evacuate. They were able to get reservations at the Hilton 57th Street but later had to evacuate that hotel as well, due to a dangerous dangling crane across the street. Luckily, the Conrad hotel reopened shortly after, thanks to a large generator powering the hotel.

The day before the wedding, City Hall was still without power. Unsure whether the marriage bureau would reopen in time for their wedding, they scrambled to find a new officiant and luckily secured Judie L. Guild with 24-hours notice. 

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