Photo of the Day
We love the mixed reactions from the flower girls during the first kiss!
We love the mixed reactions from the flower girls during the first kiss!
Photo Credit: Melissa McCrotty Photography
Tip of the Day: If splitting up holidays between your family and your fiancé feels stressful, remember that you're not stuck doing it this way forever. Families expect that you'll make adjustments after the wedding, such as alternating whose home you'll visit for Christmas each year. Although your family might be sad you won't be spending every event with them, they'll adjust with time. Make a new tradition to Skype with them during holidays when you won't be able to come over or send them special baked goods or flowers.
Check out more advice on How to Split the Holidays.
Confession: I hate being late. If I know I won't make it somewhere on time, I feel like the world will crumble. That usually doesn't happen, but with wedding plans, there could be some serious consequences if you don't stay on schedule.
Join us every Friday for our Q&A column, where editor-in-chief Diane Forden answers one reader's biggest etiquette question.
Q. Are there any particular guidelines for tipping wedding professionals? I am not sure whom to tip or how much I will need to give them.
A: Tipping depends somewhat on where you live and, in some cases, is included in your overall fee (especially when dealing with caterers or banquet halls). You should clarify this when you sign your contract. An additional tip of 15 to 20% is generally expected for your maitre d' or banquet manager. Limo drivers also expect to receive a 15% tip, as do many wedding consultants. It is not necessary to tip musicians, florists, bakers or photographers, however, unless they perform an extra-special service. Clergy members are generally given a small "gift" (ask what's typical for your congregation), while civil officiants charge only a flat fee. Other possible people you will need to tip: ceremony assistants (altar boys or girls), organists, powder and coat room attendants and parking valets. Again, many of these gratuities will be included in your overall fee, so be sure to ask.
—Diane Forden
Photo Credit: Susan Baker Photography
We love the passion in this romantic, sensual shot.
One groom discovered a way to watch his wedding day unfold from his bride's point of view!
San Diego photographer Ben Horne petitioned his now-wife Lyubov to hide a GoPro HD Hero 2 video camera (often used by skydivers to record footage) in her bridal bouquet for their June wedding.
It captured unscripted moments, both big and small. Watch the heartwarming video above to see guests react to the bride as she walks down the aisle and the couple taking in their reception space for the first time.
"It really is a very unique viewpoint and something we're going to enjoy looking back on 20 or 30 years from now," said Horne.
Horne's video only had about 18,800 views at the time of publication, but we have a feeling this could be one of the hottest new tech trends for brides.
Interested in giving your own bouquet cam a shot? Horne says he made his bride's bouquet about two weeks before the wedding using "Real Touch Flowers," which are artificial. His wife picked out orchids, roses and greenery.
They took the camera out of its housing and wrapped it in white gaffer tape so that it would be protected. Then, they super-glued a stick onto the back of it. He also glued on petals to disguise the power and record buttons, as well as the camera display. Check out this video tutorial for more info!
Such a fun photo! We love these curious dolphins taking a peek at the happy couple.
Catherine Scrivo and Andrew Baker, from Astoria in Queens, NY, planned on having a simple City Hall wedding on November 2, followed by dinner at a nice restaurant with their immediate families. Then Hurricane Sandy hit the area, and their seemingly-simple wedding suddenly became a lot more complicated.
At first, the couple considered rescheduling, but travel arrangements had already been made and paid for by their families, both traveling from Buffalo, NY, and finding another time for everyone to come into town seemed nearly impossible.
A day before their scheduled flight, Andrew's parents found out it had been cancelled. Instead, they packed up the car and made the seven hour drive. Catherine's parents also drove.
The couple and their families had made arrangements to stay at the Conrad Battery Park Hotel, but once Sandy hit, they had to evacuate. They were able to get reservations at the Hilton 57th Street but later had to evacuate that hotel as well, due to a dangerous dangling crane across the street. Luckily, the Conrad hotel reopened shortly after, thanks to a large generator powering the hotel.
The day before the wedding, City Hall was still without power. Unsure whether the marriage bureau would reopen in time for their wedding, they scrambled to find a new officiant and luckily secured Judie L. Guild with 24-hours notice.