January 14th

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Tip of the Day: Are you dwelling on a difficult bridesmaid, your meddling mother-in-law, or unresponsive wedding vendors? Create de-stressing rituals to get that troublemaker out of your mind, whether it's venting to a supportive girlfriend or taking a yoga class. You have better things to think about!

Follow this great advice from wedding planner David Tutera: Don’t go crazy asking everyone you know and their mother what they think about this location or that bridesmaid dress or this font — it’ll only lead to a frustrating amount of conflicting responses, and you won’t know what to make of it.

Check out 20 fun ideas for de-stressing here.

How We Met: Bride vs. Groom

[Editor's note: While interviewing Megan and Matt for their real wedding feature, we fell in love with the story of how they met. Here, they share in their own words how they recall that special night.]

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Matt's version:

It was a dark and stormy night... actually, it really wasn’t. It was a pretty nice, slightly warm day in the early summer. I got a call from James, asking me to hang out. I was tired and wanted to play video games or take a nap, just to get some down time alone after the semester recently ended.

“I think I’m just gonna hang out here, man,” I said.

“My brother’s here,” said James.

“Tell him I said ‘Hi’.”

James paused. Sighed. “And so’s my sister.”

“I’ll be right over.”

* * *

Maybe I should start further back. A while before this, James tells me that his brother and sister are coming up for his graduation.

“I can’t believe you’re leaving, man! We’ve had such a great time [NOT] skipping class to watch movies and order pizza this year. I can’t believe you’re leaving me behind like this. How old?”

“What?” James looked puzzled. He obviously wasn’t used to how fast and powerful my brain was.

“How old is your sister?”

10 Ways to Cut Wedding Costs—Not Corners

Guest blogger: Sharon Naylor, bestselling author of over 35 wedding books for brides, bridesmaids and the mothers of the bride and groom. Her titles have spent time in the #1 book, e-book and wishlist spots on Amazon and BN.com for their categories. Here is an exclusive sneak peek from her new book, The Bride's Guide to Freebies: Enhancing Your Wedding Without Selling Out.

1. Keep in mind that vendors like to show off to guests.
"If I know that the bride and groom have really planned on a low budget, their flowers are small, their menu is on the smaller side, they had to choose just cake instead of cake and a dessert bar, I'll add in some impressive elements so that the couple's guests can see what we do here at our banquet hall. Who knows? Maybe someone on their guest list will be planning a bar mitzvah, bat mitzvah, wedding, or corporate gala. It's great for them to see a more impressive array of my chef's work, rather than not seeing my place in a great light becuse the slim pickings were so distracting." —Henry, wedding hall manager

January 10th

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Tip of the Day: Add some creativity to your invitation response cards. Instead of using basic "will attend" or "will not attend" wording, have guests check off a box that says "Can't wait to join you for your big day!" or "Will sadly not be able to attend, but will send kisses and congratulations from afar!" This is a fun twist they won't expect when they open up that envelope. Also, some couples include space on the RSVP cards for guests to request their favorite song, write down their best marriage advice, and more. This creates great keepsakes that you can treasure for years to come!

Learn how to address your wedding invitations here.

You'll Never Believe What This Couple Wore to Their Wedding

Some couples express themselves by writing their own wedding vows, choosing a meaningful first dance song, or planning a sweet anniversary surprise. But for Nick and Wendy Lowe, their wedding day was the ultimate form of self-expression when they chose to bare all and wed in the nude.

The naturists got married on January 5 at the Wellington Naturist Club in New Zealand. About 120 guests attended the ceremony; half wore clothing, while the other half went au naturel.

"The most impressive thing really was how the guests who were not naturists pretty much just mingled and got along with everybody and didn't give a damn," the groom told Hawke's Bay Today, a local newspaper. (In case you're curious: Yes, they mentioned that it was a clothing-optional event in their wedding invitation, so guests were forewarned!)

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