While it may seem like Breaking Bad has nothing to do with weddings, they share some central themes: love, family, and money.

1. It’s not about the money.

Sometimes, when the dollar signs start flying by, it can be easy to lose track of what it is really all about. While Walter says that everything he does is for his family, when is enough really ‘enough’? Don’t let the expense of the wedding day overshadow what it is really all about — and, on the flip side, don’t think that throwing money at problems will make them go away.

2. You can’t do it all alone.

Even Heisenberg needed distribution. A wedding can be a very complex event with lots of logistics. Your bridal party, your family, and your vendors are there to help you, so let them! But that doesn’t give you a license to crack the whip (or throw pizza). People are more likely to help you if you’re nice to them!

3. There are some things that are outside your control.

It's no surprise that planning a wedding can make you break out the tissues from time to time, but one thing I didn't realize as a bride is that there are distinct emotional phases you may go through before getting married. Just like Kübler-Ross' "Five Stages of Grief" theory, you can experience these stages in any order and every person's experience is just as unique as their wedding.

Thinking of wedding planning within this framework explains how it's possible to go from being giddy one moment to anxious or disinterested the next. Here, I share my experience, but I'd love to hear which stages, if any, you'd add to my list!

Stage 1: Pure Joy

Pop the champagne corks: This is really happening! Getting engaged to my husband Jason was a surreal experience, even though I had a feeling that bended-knee moment was coming. I was initiated into the incredibly wonderful (and wacky) world of weddings. I nostalgically look back on all of my wedding experiences now that my proofs are back, my beautiful wedding dress is dangling from a closet door, waiting to be preserved, and I'm transitioning into my role as a wife.

But the truth is that the source of my happiness was deeper than all of that. The Most Epic Party of Our Lives would just be the first of many adventures together: buying a house, traveling the world and hopefully having a baby someday. Professing our commitment added another dimension to our relationship, no matter how cliché it sounds.

The winning dress! I added the custom straps shown at right. 

There’s a crisp, brisk early-morning chill in the air these days that readily conjures up all the sights and scents of the season for me (baked apples, cinnamon, pumpkin-spiced lattes!). I find autumn an especially beautiful time of year to marry. The colors are gorgeous and the décor ideas are plentiful.

We asked noted floral designer, Rene van Rems, spokesperson for Lily Occasions, for flower tips for fall weddings. Rene suggested using a few flowers that you might not normally think of as fall blooms, such as calla lilies, Asiatic lilies, Oriental lilies and gladiolus. “Mini Calla lilies are clean simple and elegant and won’t wilt out of water for days!” says Rene. “They come in more than 20 colors including bronze, deep purple, cream and burnt orange — quintessential fall hues.

Another favorite of Rene’s, the Asiatic lily is grown in greenhouses year-round and is the perfect size for carrying or to display in centerpieces. “The colors are too many to mention. If you can imagine the color, there is a bloom!” (just no blues or lavenders.)

The large “show stopper” lily is the Oriental lily. It has a strong scent unlike the unscented Asiatic lily and comes in a deep burgundy, red or soft yellow to brighten your display.

Another year-round choice recommended by Rene is the gladiolus that “is in vogue again.” “This spiky flower is available in deep purples, terra cotta, oranges or every hue and can be used on their long stem or cut in pieces,” says Rene.

Rene likes to mix these blooms together for a baroque looking collage of color, form and texture. “And if you simply add some fall leaves, branches or ornamental grasses you’ll have a more rustic, country look.”

These orange calla lilies are especially charming in small, textured silver vases:

You’ve likely seen the video that went viral about the officiant who got angry at the wedding photographers when they encroached upon the ceremony space, making loud camera noises:

Leaving aside the debate whether or not the officiant was righteous in telling them to back off, I think we can all agree that photographers being obtrusive like a flock of paparazzi helped create the environment where something like this could happen.

That's why it's so important to remember this: When it comes to choosing your photographer, don’t make the mistake of thinking only about the photography.

Here’s a thought borrowed from acclaimed acting teacher Stella Adler (whose students included Marlon Brando and Robert De Niro). "It's not enough to have talent; you have to have a talent for your talent." Her admonition was that to rely solely on natural talent only works when things go well. But it’s training and honed skills that get you through and deliver results when things don’t quite fall into place. 

And let’s be frank; with all its various personalities, moving parts, and details involved, plenty of things at your wedding may not exactly fall smoothly into place. That’s just the way real life goes — point being, talent alone is not enough. Talent needs to be honed and developed. Skills have to be learned, and then they need to be practiced until they become second nature. Then experience serves to yield insight and refine those talents and skills.

What began as one woman’s small gesture of affection — making a turkey and Swiss cheese sandwich for her boyfriend — led to a marriage proposition ("honey, you’re 300 sandwiches away from an engagement ring!") that’s sparking online debate over whether fulfilling such a promise is sweet or misogynistic.

That’s because the girlfriend-in-question, Stephanie Smith (she recently revealed her identity as a reporter for The New York Post’s gossip site, Page Six), actually took on this culinary dare. Undeterred by friends who were concerned she would morph into a Stepford Wife from the ‘50s, she decided to document her progress on a blog titled 300sandwiches.com.

Photo Credit: 300sandwiches.com

On it, she writes that, "Some say I’m desperate to get engaged. Hardly. I don’t have to be. E [her boyfriend, Eric Schulte] didn’t say ‘cook me 300 sandwiches or I’m leaving you!’ He gave me a challenge…and the type-A, Tracy Flick side of me can’t stand being challenged."