Groom Speaks Out: "How My Life Changed After Getting Engaged"

Hello BG brides. Those of you who are familiar with the "Real Brides Speak Out" blog may recognize me as Chris, Neda's fiancé. Today I'm taking over the blog to share my perspective on how our relationship has changed since getting engaged. 

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Some of the most profound changes I've witnessed have been with my fiancée's family. Her relatives were sweet and welcoming towards me as soon as I met them. However, once I was accepted in as family, it took on a whole new level. They've showered me with gifts for Nowruz (the Persian New Year) and my favorite foods. More importantly, they've gone above and beyond to take a genuine interest in my thoughts, feelings, hopes and dreams.

For example, one of Neda's uncles and I had a conversation where he asked, "What would you do if you didn't have a job and you had to work for yourself?" I mulled it over for a minute and replied that I would start my own cafe/craft beer bar, which is an idea that I've always kicked around. After a brief Q&A, he said, "Quit your job and go for it. I will finance it to get you started. You are family now." Wow! That just blew me away. This kind of unconditional love, trust and generosity is rare and uncharted territory for me.

I of course politely declined for the time being — I like my current job as a police officer. Maybe one day as retirement draws closer, but for now, it's a great thought to keep in the back of my mind.

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Summer Wedding Cocktail Recipes

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As the summer wedding season heats up, guests need ways to stay cool! If you’re looking for the perfect signature cocktail for a summer wedding or shower, here are five drinks we’ll be serving all summer long.

1. Meyer Lemon Margaritas

 If you’re craving a margarita, we recommend mixing things up a bit with Meyer lemons! 

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Tip of the Day: If your groomsmen are purchasing or renting their outfits themselves, give them a "purchase by" date that is at least two weeks before your wedding. Tell them that the store or rental place has agreed to hold stock for your wedding party until that date only.

"It is all too common during wedding season for us to receive requests from guys who need to overnight their orders in time for their weddings!" says Yun-Yi Goh, the owner and creator of The Grunion Run, an online groomsmen shop.

Plus, check out 10 Ways to Keep Your Sanity While Planning a Wedding.

Would You Throw a Co-Ed Bachelorette Party Like Jessica Simpson Did?

Wedding bells are ringing for Jessica Simpson — her big day is July 4th — who celebrated her last few weeks of singledom with a co-ed bachelor/bachelorette bash.

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Photo Credit: Jessica Simpson on Twitter

The singer-turned-fashion mogul, 33, bucked tradition by throwing a joint party on June 8th with fiancé Eric Johnson, 34, in Los Angeles. People reports that the couple hosted 40 of their nearest and dearest, including their bridal party, Johnson's former football teammates and Simpson's parents.

Stephanie Terblanche, a close pal and bridesmaid, reveals that "They didn’t want a traditional bachelor-bachelorette where they go off and do their own thing, because our group of friends is so close we just wanted to all be together." She added that, "If we are not going to be at someone’s house hanging out playing beer pong, this is the closest thing to it."

They kicked things off at Eveleigh restaurant, where they noshed on appetizers like fried artichokes, truffle fries and salad before digging into a family-style meal. Then, it was off to the Warwick nightclub, where they danced until the wee hours of the morning.

The bride-to-be flaunted her post-baby physique in a Saint Laurent LBD featuring a plunging, dotted illusion neckline.

Soccer Player Proposes Before World Cup Game!

The 2014 FIFA World Cup Match doesn't start until Thursday but one soccer player already has a victory to celebrate: His engagement!

AC Milan striker Mario Balotelli, 23, proposed to on-again, off-again girlfriend Fanny Neguesha on her birthday yesterday with a gorgeous round-cut ring.

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Photo Credit: Fanny Neguesha's official Instagram account

He commemorated the momentous occasion on Instagram by posting a photo of her sparkler and the Rio de Janeiro beach where he popped the question. "She said yes," he wrote. "The most important yes in my life. That was the place of my question! I Love you and happy birthday too ! Je t'aime my WIFE ❤"

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The Belgian model also took to the social media app to express her happiness, posting that "Tonight, I said the most important yes of my Life. That was the best present for my birthday! I love you first and unique husband."

Balotelli arrived in Brazil on June 5th for training. Italy will face England on Saturday in its first game of the tournament, so we'll have to wait until then to see if he is a winner on the playing field as well. The forward has a daughter, Pia, from a previous relationship with Raffaella Fico.

Congratulations to the happy couple! 

—Stefania Sainato

Couple Takes Breathtaking Photos After Wildfire Almost Halts Their Wedding

When Michael Wolber and April Hartley planned to get married at Oregon's Rock Springs Ranch they never imagined a wildfire would threaten their perfect outdoor wedding. 

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On Saturday June 7th, just as the couple's ceremony was about to begin, fire trucks arrived at the scene and told guests that they would need to evacuate due to a rapidly approaching wildfire. "It was like a movie. We saw a fire truck roll up with sirens blaring," Wolber told The Oregonian.

Luckily, the firefighters had a change of heart and told the couple that the ceremony could go on —  as long as it was brief. The couple quickly said their vows and minister Lisa Leavitt pronounced them husband and wife. Guests cheered the newlyweds and then hurriedly headed toward their cars to relocate to the backup reception space. The couple chose the backup venue in case of inclement weather, little did they know a fire thousands of acres long would force them to evacuate the space. 

While the entire reception was being packed up and taken downtown to the new location at Drake Park, the bride and groom snuck off with their photographer, Josh Newton, to take photos with the fire raging in the background.

The wildfire that set the verdant area ablaze — and nearly ruined their wedding — allowed them to take truly incredible photos.

Check out the spectacular images below:

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