
Wedding planning can be a time for some serious self-discovery (for better or for worse). From stress-management to decisiveness to communication skills, you’re likely to learn a whole lot about who you are (and what you’re made of) while you gear up for the big day. Here are ten self-revelations you’ll likely experience while getting ready for your wedding.
A wedding on the beach is such a good idea — it's relaxing and romantic. But other than a sandy aisle and white resin chairs, not a lot of couples know what to do with this space. Things can get tricky with an aisle runner (which we don't recommend), and sometimes beaches won't allow anything thrown, included rose petals or confetti. Finding out the rules and regulations is part of the planning process for one amazing beach wedding.

A petal toss isn't just for your ceremony exit! Have your guests shower you with petals as you share your first dance as husband and wife.
Traditionally, the bridal shower is reserved for the bride's nearest and dearest. But what about when there are two grooms? Or when you're only close with the groom and want to celebrate him? Introducing the bro-dal shower — "like a bridal shower... for dudes." The editors at BuzzFeed Life just threw two fun showers for their betrothed male coworkers.

This silly shot with the bridesmaids is a fun way to show off your veil!
Tip of the Day: Wedding costs vary across the country so be diligent when coming up with your wedding budget. "Talk with local venues, local planners, florists and photographers before locking in just one vendor. Find a community of vendors that work well together — having an A team by your side is what makes fabulous wedding come together!" says Allison Kline from Sash & Bow.
Plus, check out 101 Ways to Save Thousands on Your Wedding.
Welcome to our latest installment of "Ask the Experts," where our contributor team of wedding planners solves readers' most pressing wedding-planning dilemmas! This week, Jen Bergmark of First Pick Planning and JoAnna Bayliss of JoAnna Dee Weddings consult on a bridesmaid crisis. Do you have a question that you'd like to submit?
Tip of the Day: For a timeless big-day look, you can't go wrong with an elegant braided updo. Paul Perez, stylist at Sally Hershberger, suggests getting highlights to add dimension. He says, "The contrast of the highlights will put movement into the braid."
Plus, check out 75 Wedding Hairstyles for Every Length.
Tip of the Day: "I always suggest my brides keep the size of their advice entourage to a minimum. This is my number-one rule. Too many voices can make you lose sight of your wedding vision," says celebrity wedding planner extraordinaire David Tutera.
Plus, check out 10 Ways to Keep Your Sanity While Planning a Wedding.
One of the reasons we love flower girls and ring bearers so much is because of their wild unpredictability. And this past weekend, four-year-old flower girl Anderson surprised everyone when she decided to smooch the ring bearer, Ike, during the formal bridal photos!