How to Master Your Meet-the-Parents Look

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You just found out that your partner's parents are coming to town this weekend... and you're supposed to meet them. Let the panic commence! Yes, the first rendezvous can be a bit nerve-wracking (to put it gently). You're probably stressing over what to say (or, rather, shouldn't say), what to bring (flowers? cookies? wine?), and, most importantly, what to wear. Well, we've got that last part covered with these 12 parent-approved looks for your first face-to-face with your future in-laws.

1. The LBD

Headed to your future in-laws' for a family dinner? Throw on this flattering little number and pair it with gold earrings (to go with the gold details on the dress, of course) and these festive heels for a look that's merry and bright. Your soon-to-be in-laws will take one look at you and know their son/daughter has brought home one classy girl.

little black dress
From Donna Morgan via Lover.ly

2. Keep it casual

Did your soon-to-be mother-in-law invite you out to a ladies' lunch? Stand out in this eye-catching rust dress. The elastic waist and braided belt give you an effortlessly cool vibe while still looking pulled together. Put on some suede booties and a chunky cardigan for the ultimate cozy chic look.


From Shoptiques via Lover.ly

3. Pump it up

No matter where you're coming face-to-face with your partner's parents, a heel is always a good idea. These plaid pumps are cute and comfortable, which means you won't have to worry about falling flat on your face when you walk in the door. Remember: you want to make a good first impression... and not everyone has the grace of J. Law.

plaid pumps
From Nordstrom via Lover.ly

4. Cool, calm, and collected

If you're meeting your future in-laws for brunch, throw on some skinny jeans and a sophisticated top. It's the perfect blend of relaxed and polished, which is exactly what you want when pancakes and coffee are involved.

alice and olivia black outfit
From Alice + Olivia via Lover.ly

5. Stick to what works

Headed over to your partner's parents' place for a homemade dinner? Stick to the basics with a classic black blazer. Add a bold pop of color — try red pants or a jewel-toned blouse — to add a level of excitement! You want to look good, but you shouldn't have to subdue your bubbly personality.

alice and olivia black top with red pants
From Alice + Olivia via Lover.ly

6. Let your personality sparkle

Planning a casual coffee date with your future mother-in-law? Pair these glitter flats with skinny jeans and this rhinestone sweater for a festive first meeting!

sparkly toms
From Nordstrom via Lover.ly

7. So clutch

You'll want to have all the essentials on hand — lipgloss (for touch ups), your cell phone (to text your BFF... you know, in case of an emergency), and floss (there's nothing worse than finding a poppy seed stuck in your front teeth after you get home). Put it all in this adorable technicolor clutch before you head out for dinner with the 'rents. Let it pop by pairing it with jeans and a leather jacket.

kate spade gem tone clutch
From Rent the Runway via Lover.ly

8. Flower power

Is your beau's family all about the jokes and pranks? Show them your playful side with this whimsical print. Embrace the boho chic vibe of this floral blouse with a fishtail braid, a bulky scarf, and some skinny black pants.

alice and olivia outfit
From Alice + Olivia via Lover.ly

9. Keep time

A sleek watch will not only make sure you're on time for your first interaction with your future in-laws (punctuality is the key to winning them over!) but will add a subtle flair as well. The neutral colors of this accessory go with any outfit, so throw it on at the last minute (pun intended) to pull together any look.

michael kors watch
From Nordstrom via Lover.ly

10. Punch up the pretty

Going to the movies with your partner's parents? Throw this pretty pink jacket on under your winter coat to stay warm in the theater without compromising on style.

pink jacket
From Reiss via Lover.ly

11. Say what you feel

If you're trying to find the right words to express to your future in-laws how you feel about their little bundle of joy (aka your partner), why not let your jewelry do the talking? This yellow gold necklace is certainly a conversation starter, so let it speak for itself by pairing with a simple black sweater.

gold love necklace
From Thomas Laine via Lover.ly

12. Wrap it up

You already know you're gifted, but you need to let your future in-laws know it, too. Drop a subtle hint with this jewel-toned dress and a black belt that's tied up in the shape of a bow. This look is equal parts girly and sophisticated, and it's made for a fancy night out on the town.

red davids bridal dress
From David's Bridal via Lover.ly

What did you wear to meet your in-laws? Were you stressed out about the first meet-and-greet?

—Claire Aven

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