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Wedding Invitation Q&As

Composing wedding invitations involves complex-and beautiful-etiquette guidelines. We RSVP to your urgent questions.

By: Diane Forden

Bride's Parents, Groom's Parents, and the Couple Are Hosting

Q: We're paying for a significant chunk of our own wedding, but both families are also contributing. How do we word the invitation? 

A: To share billing amonst all three parties, here is the traditional wording:

Elizabeth Rogers
and
Gary Clark
together with their parents,
request the honour of your presence
etc.

 

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Sweetluani replied on

I have a few friends who included a Save the Date magnet in their wedding announcements. It was pretty helpful - I attached the invitation to my fridge using the magnet provided, and then on the day of the wedding, when I was scrambling to get out the door on time, I was able to quickly locate the invitation for directions. For my Save the Dates, I did a postcard. However, I still like the idea of including a magnet in the actual invitations. My invitations will have a pocket for the RSVP card, and I was thinking of including a magnet of my fiance and I there. Would this be OK, and if so, what would be the proper wording on the magnet at this point - would "Save the Date" still be OK?

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