A reader asked if it was proper etiquette to invite your hairstylist and makeup artist to the wedding. The short answer is no, not necessary, unless your relationship is more than professional and you consider them good friends. But since I was having my straggly locks trimmed last night anyway I decided to go right to the source and ask my own hairstylist extraordinaire, Patrick Danek, for his thoughts on the topic. After all, throughout their careers, Patrick and his business associate, Mitchell Behr, have helped make hundreds of brides look beautiful at weddings all across the country from the east end of Long Island to California and even Argentina!
Patrick concurred that it was not necessary to extend an invitation unless you were already friends and if you do invite your stylists, make sure it’s not just verbally. Always send a formal invitation. “Otherwise, if it’s asked so casually, I probably wouldn’t go,” he said. He also advised that you always do a dry run and make an appointment to see your hairstylist and makeup artist well before the wedding day. He noted that although most brides come to their appointments with photos of long, wavy hair in hand, they often change their minds and opt for something more “special” like an up-do or a style that they wouldn’t wear every day. After all, the hairstyle and makeup should be every bit as spectacular as the gown, so don’t be afraid to experiment until you find the right look. And do listen to advice from your stylists: They truly want you to be happy and look gorgeous!
So thanks for the tips and a great haircut, Patrick, and Mitchell, I promise to go see Avatar soon.
Posted by Diane at 2:22 p.m.